An Adults Tale

It's my friend's party. Guests are of different ages and they cannot h

It's my friend's party. Guests are of different ages and they cannot help themselves but as of me why am I single? That is the most common question I have been asked lately. I just turned twenty eight last month of May and everyone is curious about why am I still single. I just cannot tell them I do not want to settle for less. During our college days, my girl friends and I will talk about our relationships. One of us was so into man hunting over internet dating. She even told us to try it because we all have nothing to lose and only a man to gain. The same friend of mine has a boyfriend already who she refers to as her reservation. Since I was the same single I am now, I got hooked with chatting and going into social sites has become my pastime. Until one day when a spam mail appeared to my inbox which says "Try this, absolutely free! London dating for all the singles out there!". So without hesitation and out of curiosity, I opened the mail and read about success love stories through London dating. But when I clicked the URL fo such, it appears the site doesn't come for free and we have to sign up for ten dollars. I talked to my friends about it in haste and my addicted girl friend said she has tried that London dating once and signed up for the site but nothing happened. She said that site is only doing it so it can have lost of members paying for the initial membership payment. To my dismay, and as much as I would like to sign up for London dating, I fought the urge myself. Sure I want a boyfriend and I believe one cannot just sit around and wait for the person they want to spend his or her life with. Sometimes one has to make a move, or moves to finally find that person. And I guess I am one of those who search and not just sit around. Now as I seat here watching my girl friend dance with her boyfriend gentry caressing her back, I could not help but ask myself the same question. Why am I single? Well, I think I am not the only one who has that question to his or her self. But I won't stop searching of one is never too old to fall in love. One is never too young to fall in love. One is never rich or poor to fall in love. There are no rules when it comes to love. It happens naturally.

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Throughout my life I have found interest in both men and women, but ha

Throughout my life I have found interest in both men and women, but have found that I mostly have been dating men. I have yet to have had a relationship with a woman, but have had sex with a few. I believe that the reason for me dating men is because of how I was raised, otherwise I could have turned out to possibly be a lesbian. I can not turn back time and tell my parents how to raise me, but I do know that when I have children I will be more open minded. One of the reasons why I have been dating men is because of their personalities. I prefer submissive males, but being smart and handsome are also bonuses. On the other hand, I am not picky about women very much. They are all gorgeous in my eyes, no matter the woman. I do make exceptions for certain men, but they have to be accepting of my liking of women and several other things such as my dominance. Most women love being dominated and I feel comfortable in the role the most. Throughout my life I have met and been with several different types of people. Never has the chance presented itself to date a woman until now, but I am unsure about how she feels about me. She has told me that she does like me but there are some differences that we have, mostly including how we communicate, that could get in the way of our relationship. She is the first woman to have interest in me and whom I've had interest in, so it is a very exciting experience. I can just only hope that we are able to put aside our differences so I am able to experience this new part of my life. I have liked women since I can remember, even before I took an interest in dating men. It is an akward feeling being on the other side of the fence, but I find it very comfortable to have feelings for a woman and to possibly have them returned. I do have a boyfriend, but we are both very open and he and I have "played" with this woman on several occasions. It is an odd feeling trying to think about how being in two relationships would work, but only time can tell if it will or not for me.

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Dating men was the only pleasure I would get in this world. They were

Dating men was the only pleasure I would get in this world. They were so easy to manipulate. I mean, I could get a whole free dinner off one guy this day and the next. You can even get some free clothes out of the relationship, if you play your cards right. Maybe even get some jewelry. You just had to twist the guy's to your ever need. Sure people call me a gold digger but that was my personality. Dating men was the only thing I desired and I really thought it would stay that way forever. Devotion wasn't an option at the time. Not until I met one particular person. The person who would stop me from dating men. The man who would turn my world up side down and who I would chase. The world of dating men as I knew it would vanish and I would finally settle down.On that fateful night that I met him, I realised I wasn't the only one chasing after him. Multiple women from left and right chasing after the same person. He was like a star but he gained his popularity from his look and his attitude. An attitude that gave off the impression that he was unattainable. His blue eyes cold as the arctic ocean and his dirty brown hair so light and fluffy. He was better looking then movie stars. I fell head over heels just by looking at him. He was that stunning. He saw me looking at him and flashed the most gorgeous smile that I've ever seen. I smiled back. I thought I would never see him again so I just grabbed a coffee and left.As soon as I was reaching the door to exit the coffee shop, his hand stopped the door from opening. I froze and only heard a soft whisper from him. He asked me if I was free today. I nodded. His breathe smelled so nice. He then took my hand in his. We walked off. passion was flooding me. I was going on a date with this unattainable guy who would knock any body's socks off. He took me to this candle light dinner. It was moving since I've never been taken to a place so fancy before. We talked. He opened up to me. What he was passionate about, what he adored. He told me everything and for some reason I told him everything to. He seemed like that kind of person I could trust. I've never opened up to a boy I just met before so I knew he was someone special.

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I had always heard that if you used a dating service you had an increa

I had always heard that if you used a dating service you had an increased chance of finding a really nice boyfriend although to be honest I had never really believed in this. I never thought using a dating service was essential because for real passion, I believed you could just meet somebody, become friends, get to know each other and over time become much more intimate and trust each other more and eventually a romance would be sparked. But a dating service? I did not see the point at all. I mean, I had been on a blind date before which had been arranged by a dating service and it just was not good at all because you got about five minutes with each person and at the end of the night you ended up with about twenty numbers and not knowing anything of importance about any of the people you just met so I figured that if this was the sort of thing a dating service could provide you with, it was better just to meet somebody through your own accord! I had had many tragic dates in the past, and seriously, when I say tragic, I really do mean tragic. I remember one date I had of which the man, James was his name, had done a background check and gathered all this information about me! so not only did I feel uncomfortable that a potential stranger had been doing research on me, despite him being a detective because it was still strange to just do random research on a person, but there was just nothing to talk about because he already knew everything. He could not ask me what my favourite drink was, or what my favourite film was, or what I liked to do in my spare time, or what my favourite sport was, and so on, because he already knew the answer from his research, so basically the night consisted of sitting there wondering what the hell he was thinking, and eating a meal practically in silence. It seriously was the worst date I had ever been on. And guess what, he was part of a dating service so if that was the type of people involved in the services, the sad but clear truth was I just did not want to know in the slightest. A dating service just did not appeal to me.

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Slimy Bob the guinea pig had tried hundreds of dating sites in the pas

Slimy Bob the guinea pig had tried hundreds of dating sites in the past, but never had he found a partner on any of them. But this new dating service was special, oh yes! He knew it in his blood, Guineas Reunited was the dating site for him!

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Growing Up and Dating Men When I was younger my mother had warned me

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I was in college before I started dating men. I had always wanted to g

I was in college before I started dating men. I had always wanted to get my education first. I had been afraid that dating men would keep me from concentrating on my studies. I wasVictorianat my high school graduation, and was attending one of the best colleges in the state. I only had a few years left before becoming a doctor.

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I was searching for my perfect match everywhere i can reach. i never t

I was searching for my perfect match everywhere i can reach. i never thought online dating would ever work. Its been years since i dated a decent girl and had a successful relationship that last more then one or two months. My friends and family members tried to hook me up with some of their friends or co-workers. I've been to many parties and went to many bars hoping to find a girl that i can say i love but no luck in anywhere i've tried. Most of them don't even share the same interest as me. I've been searching for the perfect girl for awhile now but i haven't had any luck untill i met her. For once i actually think im in love.

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Marry was interested in internet dating. She was very leery of the fac

Marry was interested in internet dating. She was very leery of the fact that she might meet someone very dangerous on the site, so she ensured that her privacy settings were set to private. She had to pay a small fee to participate in the program.

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Anne had almost given up on her search for true love. Her recent datin

Anne had almost given up on her search for true love. Her recent dating experiences could only be described as disastrous. True love, she was beginning to think was a myth. She leaned down to to caress Freddie her cat. Freddie sensing her sadness jumped onto her lap. "You are my true love Freddie," she said to him as she gently stroked him.

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If I had a dollar for every brief encounter I have had during all the

If I had a dollar for every brief encounter I have had during all the traveling I do for business I would be a millionaire by now. I workas a salesman and that requires me to travelthree weeks of the month. During that time I get to meet women from all over the world that I will never see again. This makes it very easy for me to meet someone and have a casual night with them and then move on to the next town. There is no love here, nor will there ever be. I simply enjoy the company of many different women as I am not ready to settle down.

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