An Adults Tale

Growing Up and Dating Men

When I was younger my mother had warned me about dating men in general. She said that I should be aware of those men who are just after one thing and I know what she meant.... sex! Anyway when I got a bit matured I was exposed to the realities of having a relationship with the members of the opposite sex. I have learned the meaning of intimacy and sex. I have seen my friends get so close with their boyfriends. I often caught them in the corner of my eye, being so intimate the boy would often tickle or caress my friends in a sexual kind of way and i will notice my friend turn red with this weird look on her face. Since I was a shy girl It was so hard for me to interact with theguys and they often get mixed signals on me. They think that I was a snob or was just not too interested in them, there I came to realize and it dawned on me that dating men will a major problem for me. Then therecamethisguy that I really like when I was in still in University, I will usually feel strange whenever he is around sort of having butterflies inside my stomach you knowgirl stuff... I was suddenly back being like a young girl having her first crush or a puppy love as you may call it. I really really like him and would do anything to get to know him oh I thought to my self, if only i had a bit more experience in dating men I would not have this dilemma. I haven't really had any serious relationship before except for that one moment during high school when I was able to go out to the prom with this friend of mine if you can evencall that a relationship what more and thats about it when it comes to datingmen in general. Luckily I got a close girl friend who was a mutual friend of this guy I like.She was dating the guys best friend she told me that thisguy was also carrying a torch for me! I was so delighted and cannot contain my self with happinessand so we planned something to hook the two of us together. A blind date was planned and in just a week I was in a movie house with theman of my dreams. What happen next? Well I'll tell you in my next story....as I continue to experience the joys of dating men.